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the new i do

Liking the new “I Do”…..

What is a traditional relationship? It’s a question I have immersed myself in since my husband and I took those first steps (in different directions) to separate rooms in 2005. As a result, for the last 11 years I’ve been challenging people to prioritise health over the ‘tradition’ of sharing a bed each night with their partner. You can imagine how thrilled I was then, when late last year, I … [Read More...]

Apartners

Voices unite…..

Having been in the space of non-traditional couple behaviour for a few years, I've noticed an increase in a broader discussion around couples making choices about how they manage their relationship. While we've grown to socially sanction couples who: live together without being married have … [Read More...]

connected people

The Comfort of Connection….

I've written before (The BIGger Picture) about that as humans, we have an innate drive to be accepted. Most of us like to feel 'normal'. We like to know that our choices are within a range that does not raise social alarm bells in those from who seek approval - consciously, or subconsciously. All … [Read More...]

number 1

My one piece of advice….

In an interview just after my book's release in Canada, a journalist from The Globe and Mail in Toronto recently asked me a fantastic question. On reflection, I was surprise that no-one had actually asked me this question before. And the question was..... "What would be my No 1 piece of advice … [Read More...]

What is a traditional relationship? It’s a question I have immersed myself in since my husband and I took those first steps (in different directions) to separate rooms in 2005. As a result, for the last 11 years I’ve been challenging people to prioritise health over the ‘tradition’ of sharing a bed each night with […]